Speak to your own your heart, consider your ways, and search your heart. Do it when you are alone, with no interruptions, and then be still.
Keep your spirit calm and quiet so that you can hear your heart ministering to you about your day, your interactions with others and your decisions.
God speaks to you in your heart, lay on your bed in the night times, before falling asleep or when you wake up in the middle of the night. Listen to your heart.
Psa_4:4 Stand in awe, and sin not: commune with your own heart upon your bed, and be still. Selah.